Gwendolen Gross recently released her third book, “The Other Mother,” a work of fiction that falls in the drama genre. The novel revolves around two mothers – one who works outside of the home and one who stays at home – and the struggles that they go through to understand each other. Gross is an engrossing writer (no pun intended) and I was able to finish the book in record time – even with a toddler in tow!
Here’s your chance to get to know Gwendolen…
ME: Your newest novel revolves around the topic of motherhood (and more). Are you a mother and, if so, how many children do you have and what are their ages?
GG: I am a mother–my son is 8 and my daughter is 5. I started writing The Other Mother shortly after my son was born, so this novel (my third) has taken a while (revisions and other writing…) to make it to press. With each of my children, I had a new book—but this third time around, no new babies. It does make it easier to promote.
ME: How do you make time for writing?
GG: I’m fairly regular about my writing time (I write out the hours–or parts thereof–in my day planner, and don’t schedule other things then…or try not to)–which is not to say it always happens when planned. However, I feel like the time pressure associated with parenting (and my kids are both in school now, which gives me a good envelope of time–when I’m not teaching, cooking, editing, etc) helps me write more efficiently.
ME: What tips would you give to moms who are aspiring writers?
GG: Writers are people who write. The whole business bit is separate and comes later. Write every day, even if the only time you have is in the school parking lot waiting for your kids. Give yourself permission to find your way, to write until you get to the truths you want to tell. I write because I can’t not write. But sometimes it can take a while to get going. And lots of pages are engine-revving pages.
ME: Your two main characters (Thea and Amanda) have very different lives and yet they are also very similar. Which character do you relate to more and why?
GG: There are little bits of me (the Franklin Day Planner, the hyperemesis for Amanda; Thea’s naturalist experiences and desire to get out) in both characters. I’m a work at home mom, so I’m not really one or the other, which means at the beginning I felt left out of some social groups. That wasn’t necessarily a bad thing. I have friends on both “sides,” and friends who don’t have children! But when my son was born I was amazed that there really were these two camps—SAHM and WOTH (seven years ago I’m not sure we called them that, but it was there already, even if mommy lit hadn’t hit yet).
Gwendolen Gross is also a blogger and an expert at self-promotion. Contact her with your compliments at ggross@gwendolengross.com.
WIN IT! One lucky winner will be selected to receive her own signed copy of “The Other Mother.” To enter, leave a comment and your e-mail address on this post by Thursday, November 15, at midnight. Don’t forget to leave your e-mail address! The winner will be announced and contacted via e-mail on Friday, November 16. * Winner must provide a U.S. mailing address.
NOTE: I have to agree with “5 Minutes for Mom” reviewer Jennifer with her rating of a “strong PG-13″ in terms of content.
*UPDATED* The winner is #48 Bebemiqui!
I would be really interested in reading this book as a sahm to see the other side of motherhood.
colesammom@gmail.com
This looks quite interesting….
alisondblanchard@yahoo.com
blelmer22@yahoo.com
I’d LOVE to win. I LOVE to read…
Please enter me :)
(My email is in my blogger profile – click my name!)
Sounds like a great read. I’ve had both roles and neither are easy=), but I have high respect for all mothers.
This looks like a great book!
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Sounds like a great read on a very hot topic!
It’s on my list of must read books! Hope I win!
I WOULD LOVE THIS BOOK!!
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jchoppes@hotmail.com
sounds great!
Can’t wait to read it!
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danielsfam@hughes.net
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I LOVE to read…but it was getting a little spendy, so now I just borrow books from the library…it has been soooooo long since I have gotten a hold of a new book…I see titles I want to read, but I have to wait and wait until they get them at the library…an even then, they may not get that title in. Someday, I will treat my self and buy one again…until then , thanks for the opportunity to win!!! lauralala@qwest.net
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I’ve been hearing a lot about this book and would LOVE to read it!
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i’m always up for a good book!
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tonyamike@charter.net
I love fiction, especially when I can really relate to the topic. I’d love to win.
normanfam(at)gmail(dot)com
I have read a few reveiws of this book and can’t wait to read it
Wow, even if I don’t win this, it’s going to be added to my wish list on amazon!
Sounds like a good read! Thanks for sharing!
sounds like a great read. i would love to read it even if I don’t win!
Sounds like an interesting read! Email is in my profile.
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Count me in please!
I’ve been trying to read more and this sounds like a good book. Please count me in! Thanks for the giveaway.
renae18[at]gmail[dot]com
Hey I have been wanting to read this book! I have tried to win it once on another blog, but no luck.
So think of me! lol
Thanks
Shannon
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I’m always looking for a good read, and this one looks fantastic!
I would love to read this book!
kammy28@gmail.com
Books! New authors! OOh Shiney!
This book sounds wonderful. It’s always hard to imagine what it’s like on the “other side” of motherhood. I can’t wait to read this!!
mpistey@gmail.com
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This sounds very interesting – I love finding new authors! Thanks for the giveaway!
julieahudson[at]hotmail[.]com
sounds like I would really like this read, would love to win…thanks!
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ashley_tignor(at)yahoo.com
Looks like a fun book to read while I nurse!
maryjowyse@yahoo.com
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I’ve seen this book around a lot, hope to win this so I can read it!
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