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Positive Messages for Teen and Tween Girls
By metropolitanmama | February 12, 2008
Although I usually write about products, events, and websites that are geared to moms who are pregnant or who have little ones under age three, I thought I’d take a minute to acknowledge my readers who are moms of teen or tween girls this evening.
There’s no denying that it’s tough being a teen girl in today’s society. It’s a confusing time full of questions like: Who am I? Who will I become? What are my strengths? Who can I trust with my heart? When will I fall in love? What does my future hold?
Unfortunately, girls often look to the media to find the answers. They see the popularity, the pregnancies, the posh materialism, the focus on “prettiness,” and the “hook-up-then-break-up” relationships that are rampant on TV, online, and beyond.
In the midst of all this, it’s great to find resources that are more wholesome. Resources that inspire, motivate, and encourage - rather than complicate an already intense time. One such resource is Heart of Gold, “the first website dedicated to helping young women recognize — and celebrate — the unique gifts they bring to the world.”
Heart of Gold “was created to encourage young women to stand up for what they believe in. And then take a stand — individually and collectively — to see how they can make a difference in the world.”
Although the website is still a bit scanty when it comes to content, it’s certainly worth passing on the link to your teen/tween daughter. There are articles about fashion, community service, packing for college, and more.
Of course, you and your daughter can also buy accessories and jewelry with positive messages on the site (I hear clothing is on the way too). Best of all, every time you buy something on Heart of Gold, a portion of the profits will be donated to charity.
Here’s an idea! Plan a special outing with your daughter - just the two of you. Go on a hike, get pedicures, volunteer at a soup kitchen, or eat lunch at a fabulous downtown restaurant. You choose the activity. While there, present her with a Follow Your Heart to the Life of Your Dreams Necklace or a Heart of Gold Necklace. Tell her 5 things that you love about her “heart.” Hopefully, the necklace will serve as a constant reminder of your special outing, your presence in her life, and your belief in who she is and who she will become in the future. 
WIN IT! One mama will win a Follow Your Heart to the Life of Your Dreams Necklace to give to a special girl in her life. To enter, simply leave a comment stating who you would present the necklace to if you won, along with your e-mail address, on this post prior to Thursday, February 14 (perfect for Valentines Day, don’t you think?). The winner will be announced and contacted on Friday, Feb. 15. * Winner must provide a U.S. mailing address.
* UPDATE * The winner is #84 redfantum. Congratulations!
Topics: contests, older sibs |
February 12th, 2008 at 5:27 am
My niece is just becoming a tween and I would give this to her after we spent a special day together.
February 12th, 2008 at 5:42 am
My BFF has 3 little girls and I would give it to the oldest one…
Caryn
February 12th, 2008 at 6:02 am
I would love to be able to give this to my daughter
February 12th, 2008 at 6:33 am
I would love to give this to my daughter .
February 12th, 2008 at 6:49 am
I would give this necklace to my daughter if I won, to remind her how special she is to me.
February 12th, 2008 at 7:19 am
I think my cousin would be thrilled to receive this as a gift!
February 12th, 2008 at 7:21 am
My daughter
February 12th, 2008 at 7:43 am
I would give it to my mom
February 12th, 2008 at 8:22 am
MY DARLING GRANDAUGHTER
February 12th, 2008 at 8:40 am
Definitely my mom, she could use some extra encouragement right now
February 12th, 2008 at 8:40 am
I’d definitely give this necklace to my 13 year old daughter.
partymix25(at)hotmail(dot)com
February 12th, 2008 at 9:09 am
I would be eternally grateful If I could win this gift for my cousin. She just turned 13 and just a few days later her mother went to prison.
I won’t ramble on with the whole sob story, but she is slipping into that whole I’m a depressed “goth” girl now and losing her way. She’s a good girl who is so much stronger and more beautiful than she realizes. Maybe this could be a way to remind her how special she is without being a “preachy” adult?
Sorry it was so long
Thanks, Kelly
February 12th, 2008 at 9:24 am
Oops forgot my email address;)
kayjay878@gmail.com
February 12th, 2008 at 9:46 am
My granddaughter would love this!
February 12th, 2008 at 10:12 am
My cousin’s daughter would love this.
February 12th, 2008 at 10:14 am
I have a 12 yr old who is in definite need of this
Thank you!!
February 12th, 2008 at 10:23 am
my niece rylee
February 12th, 2008 at 10:35 am
I don’t have any children but I volunteer with Big Brothers, Big Sisters. The young girl I sponsor would love to have this at age 12!
pamela.callahan@sbcglobal.net
February 12th, 2008 at 11:20 am
My niece.
February 12th, 2008 at 11:35 am
Sweepmom@comcast.net
My niece is graduating highschool in May. This would be the perfect gift for her.
February 12th, 2008 at 11:52 am
perfect for my newly acquired step-neice
February 12th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
Would love to give this to my granddaughter
February 12th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
my mom,she never treats herself!! ahdrad2932@msn.com
February 12th, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I would give this to my best friend. She just broke up with her fiance after being together for 13 years. Her father was also just put into a nursing home in the same week. She works hard, she is generous and kind and she is having a very bad time right now. I love her and I would love to give this to her.
February 12th, 2008 at 12:48 pm
granddaughter
February 12th, 2008 at 12:55 pm
i would give this to my youngest daughter- she has been trough some trying times healthwise and jobwise, but she never gives up. it has made her such a wonderful person, that i look up to.
February 12th, 2008 at 1:01 pm
I would love to give this to my daughter who is almost 14
February 12th, 2008 at 1:04 pm
Would give the necklace to my granddaughter.
February 12th, 2008 at 1:17 pm
I would be the best aunt ever because I would give it to my niece.
February 12th, 2008 at 1:29 pm
My new granddaughter will be turning 1 in about two weeks and I would love to set this aside and give it to her when she gets older. My husband passed away eight years ago and his daughter and I miss him very much…this looks like something he would chose to let his granddaughter just how much he loves her. Thank you for the contest!
February 12th, 2008 at 1:41 pm
I would give it to my husband’s niece whom I have become close to. I want to be the COOL AUNT!
February 12th, 2008 at 1:44 pm
my oldest grand daughter would love it.
February 12th, 2008 at 1:48 pm
I would present this to my daughter. She is almost 16. She is so unsure of herself, always questioning her abilities and self worth. Regardless of what we do.
She is turning into a wonderful, responsible young lady. Since the birth of her little sister a little over a year ago, I am sure she is feeling a little left out.
Thanks for this contest!
February 12th, 2008 at 2:05 pm
I would give this to my 14 year old niece, who is having a hard time this year with weight gain and illness. She could use some encouragement. Lovely necklace!
February 12th, 2008 at 2:19 pm
I will give this to my mom!
February 12th, 2008 at 2:49 pm
I would give it to my daughter.
February 12th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
MY DAUGHTER
February 12th, 2008 at 3:15 pm
My daughter is right at this age, it would be perfect for her.
February 12th, 2008 at 3:17 pm
my sister, Julie. she married a guy w/ 2 kids and she raised them as if they were her own
February 12th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
I would give the necklace to my daughter. thank you
February 12th, 2008 at 3:33 pm
I would give this to my girlfriend.
February 12th, 2008 at 3:33 pm
My daughter who is 11 just became a woman last month. Sometimes I find myself watching her, shaking my head at times as to what an incredible woman she is becoming. I am so proud of her and want her to know that nothing is impossible and reaching for the stars is just a grasp away. I would love to win this for daughter, to celebrate her future and what dreams can be accomplished.
February 12th, 2008 at 3:35 pm
I would love to give this to my mother.
February 12th, 2008 at 3:36 pm
I’d give it to my Goddaughter
February 12th, 2008 at 3:41 pm
MY GRANDAUGHTER
February 12th, 2008 at 4:00 pm
I would give the necllace to my neice
February 12th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
My granddaughter she is 10 and has gone through alot lately.
February 12th, 2008 at 4:22 pm
I would give this to a young girl I work with.
She is 17 and lives on her own.
She amazes me a times!!
This would be perfect for her.
February 12th, 2008 at 4:44 pm
I would give it to the girl who lives next door.
February 12th, 2008 at 4:49 pm
I’d give this to my beautiful granddaughter
tiramisu392 (at) yahoo.com
February 12th, 2008 at 4:50 pm
I would give this to one of my cousins. One is about to graduate from high school and the other two don’t get to do many girly things because they have multiple brothers.
February 12th, 2008 at 4:51 pm
I would definitely give this to my 16 1/2 year old daughter -
February 12th, 2008 at 5:01 pm
My daughter is young, but I’d like to keep it for her for when she’s older. I tell her this stuff verbally even now, at 2 1/2, and when she’s old enough the necklace can be a reminder for when she’s not with me 24/7.
February 12th, 2008 at 5:02 pm
My daughter
February 12th, 2008 at 5:16 pm
My Grand-daughter would love this for her birthday.My heart belongs to her.
February 12th, 2008 at 5:21 pm
I would give it to my oldest daughter. I would like to let her know that she is so very special to me, and the day she was born was the day that my life really began.
February 12th, 2008 at 5:21 pm
great gift idea
February 12th, 2008 at 5:25 pm
my wonderful daughter
February 12th, 2008 at 5:34 pm
I would give it to my grand-daughter because she has by heart.
February 12th, 2008 at 5:52 pm
love jewelry!
February 12th, 2008 at 6:40 pm
I would present the necklace to my favorite niece ~ it’s perfect for her
*Thanks* for the giveaway!
February 12th, 2008 at 7:17 pm
My wife, who is expecting!
February 12th, 2008 at 7:39 pm
I’d give to my niece. Her mother died in January and her dad, my brother, is dying of prostrate and lung cancer. She needs inspiration now.
February 12th, 2008 at 7:50 pm
I would give it to my Aunt who just finished chemo. It would be very special.
mogrill@comcast.net
February 12th, 2008 at 8:15 pm
How wonderful! I am off to check the website now!!
February 12th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
I would give this to my little sister that is about to graduate highschool. What a great necklace and a powerful message!! garypost@cox.net
February 12th, 2008 at 8:55 pm
love to win this prize
February 12th, 2008 at 9:03 pm
I would give this to my 14 year old niece.
February 12th, 2008 at 9:36 pm
Perfect! for little Beck! Thanks
February 12th, 2008 at 9:39 pm
I would give it to my 12 year old granddaughter, she is very special to me! Thanks for the giveaway.
February 12th, 2008 at 10:32 pm
i want to win
February 12th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
I would give this to my niece. She turns 12 next month.
kelli (at) pfrog (dot) net
February 13th, 2008 at 1:03 am
I would love to be able to give this to my oldest granddaughter. She is so precious and it would be so wonderful for her as she goes into the teen years.
February 13th, 2008 at 1:06 am
I would love this for my beautiful daughter who just turned 18 and is so excited to be getting ready to follow her dream of going to college! And she’s the one who made it happen with all her hard work.
February 13th, 2008 at 1:30 am
I have a friend that is soon to be a mom for the first time. I would give it to her.
neneelynn@yahoo.com
February 13th, 2008 at 1:33 am
moms getting this!
February 13th, 2008 at 1:35 am
My granddaughter!
February 13th, 2008 at 1:45 am
i would give it to my little love, ella!! what a great giveaway!! thanks so much!!
February 13th, 2008 at 2:13 am
My mother
February 13th, 2008 at 2:43 am
I would give this to my little sis, Jackie. She is so strong I think that she would love this gift. Thank You so much.
February 13th, 2008 at 2:50 am
I would give it to one of my daughters.
February 13th, 2008 at 2:51 am
i would like to give it to my daughter
February 13th, 2008 at 3:24 am
I would give it to my daughter as a special treasure. She loves to use her dad’s compass but it would be great for her to grow into her own.
February 13th, 2008 at 3:30 am
My 12 year old daughter is heading into that teen angst thing. She could use the reminder.
February 13th, 2008 at 4:28 am
My only neice turns 13 late this year so I would give it to her.I want to make it a birthday she will never forget!
February 13th, 2008 at 4:55 am
I would give it to my daughter
February 13th, 2008 at 5:01 am
my niece- who has been having a tough time since her dad died of cancer
February 13th, 2008 at 5:38 am
I’d give this to my mom. She’s been there for me whenever I’ve needed her and this would be a great way to thank her.
agsweeps@hotmail.com
February 13th, 2008 at 5:39 am
I think I’d give it to my sister
February 13th, 2008 at 6:29 am
I’d give it to my daughter. She is a mom and going through some tough times right now.
February 13th, 2008 at 6:37 am
i would give this to my niece!
February 13th, 2008 at 7:31 am
I’d give it to a special student of mine that has been spending her recess time helping me with my first graders. Thanks!
February 13th, 2008 at 8:01 am
i’d give it to my cousin cuz she’s going through and awkward phase.
February 13th, 2008 at 1:01 pm
I would love to give this to my daughter .
February 13th, 2008 at 2:04 pm
I would give this to my mon
February 13th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
My best friend’s 13 year old daughter…
February 13th, 2008 at 3:17 pm
My Princess, Granddaughter
February 13th, 2008 at 3:28 pm
Definitely my mom!
elaineneal389@hotmail.com
February 13th, 2008 at 3:32 pm
I’d give it to my daughter.
February 13th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
I would give it to my daughter…lovely!
Sherri
beachcombermom2004@yahoo.com
February 13th, 2008 at 6:05 pm
i would give it to my God-Daughter, she is 16.
February 13th, 2008 at 6:16 pm
Hello, I have a niece who is one of three children of my sister-in-law.
She is my husband’s adopted much younger sister. H. has two sons younger than my niece. All 3 have been fathered by different men. My in-laws are basically raising all three of the children! Because, they are part Thai, American and African American, I feel that my niece has trouble knowing where she fits in!
She is a large size girl for her 13 years of age, which doesn’t help. I would love to present here with this wonderful gift. Please enter me in your drawing. Thanks,Cindi
jchoppes[at]hotmail[dot]com
February 13th, 2008 at 6:37 pm
I would love to give this to my granddaughter for her 13th birthday in May.
njones127 at tampabay dot rr dot com
February 13th, 2008 at 7:05 pm
I would love to give this to my daughter
February 13th, 2008 at 8:03 pm
This would be great for my niece’s 9th birthday!
February 13th, 2008 at 8:34 pm
I would give this to my mother
February 13th, 2008 at 8:39 pm
I would give it to my daughter.
February 13th, 2008 at 8:45 pm
My daughter would love this.
February 13th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
I would love to give this to my daughter. As a freckled faced redhead with bright red curly hair she gets picked on sometimes for the way she looks. I would love to be able to give her a message that she has with her everyday reminding her how beautiful she truely is!
lisalmg (at) ktis (dot) net
February 13th, 2008 at 9:04 pm
The older of my two nieces, which would mean that I would have to get a second one for Hannah.
theyyyguy@yahoo.com
February 13th, 2008 at 10:11 pm
one of my nieces
February 13th, 2008 at 10:14 pm
thank you for the great contest
enter me please
pethof (at) gmail (dot) com
I’d give it to my daughter
February 13th, 2008 at 11:48 pm
I would give it to my niece. Her mom, my sister, is now in chemotherapy due to breast cancer. My niece is only 12 years old yet has shown so much courage during this time. She is such a help to her mom both with her younger sisters as well as giving her support, strength and love. She is simply amazing for someone so young.
February 13th, 2008 at 11:58 pm
I would give this neclace to my mother who raised eight kids virtually on her own.
February 14th, 2008 at 12:05 am
I would save it for my granddaughter.
February 14th, 2008 at 12:17 am
I’d give it to my daughter, she’s amazing!
February 14th, 2008 at 12:23 am
i[d give it to my daughter, she’s trying to find herself at the moment.
February 14th, 2008 at 1:14 am
I’d give this to my step-daughter-in-law. She’s amazing and my step-son loves her!!
gmb73003@aol.com
February 14th, 2008 at 1:50 am
I would love to give this necklace to my younger sister. At 16, she has been such a true and loving inpitation to me.
February 14th, 2008 at 1:52 am
I would give it to my daughter
February 14th, 2008 at 2:18 am
I would give it to my niece.
February 14th, 2008 at 4:02 am
I would give this to my 7 year old daughter.
February 14th, 2008 at 4:07 am
I would give it to myself.
February 14th, 2008 at 4:12 am
I would give this to my mom, who lives 700+ miles away and is coming to visit next month!
jazzerspeechie@yahoo.com
February 14th, 2008 at 4:21 am
I would give this to my daughter.
February 14th, 2008 at 4:27 am
My sweetheart! My youngest daughter, she is 10!
February 14th, 2008 at 4:51 am
I have a large family, but I think that I would give this to my daughter who is 16.
February 14th, 2008 at 5:35 am
Great message, I would love this for my sister!
February 14th, 2008 at 6:33 am
I would give it to my neice who is about to turn 13.
February 14th, 2008 at 7:52 am
I would give it to my 10 year old daughter ,because I want her to know that anything is possbile and she can make anything out of her life that she wants to.
The mean little girls at school have been making her feel down lately and I want to remind her how special and talented she is.
tonylethal@aol.com
February 14th, 2008 at 8:00 am
I would give it to my mom
February 14th, 2008 at 8:34 am
I would give this to my 13 year old…
I think every 13 year old needs to know this message
February 14th, 2008 at 10:14 am
I would give this to my daughter, on active duty in the Air Force, because she has so many dreams and I hope she reaches them all.
February 14th, 2008 at 11:17 am
I would give this to my younger sister, who is at a pivitol point in her life right now
Great contest!
February 14th, 2008 at 11:59 am
I would love to give this to my 17 year old daughter. She’s been thru so much in the last year and a half with four different health issues and just life issues in general. But no matter what, she never takes her eyes off the Lord, and she’s always willing to give more than she receives. Even with her health she’s been able to volunteer more than 120 hours of her time, she’s taking high school and college classes as a high school junior, working a part-time job, and wants desperately to become an attorney. I’ve always told her to follow her heart to her dreams and I know she’ll go far.
February 14th, 2008 at 12:41 pm
Of course I would give this to my little girl
February 14th, 2008 at 2:12 pm
I would give it to the special woman in my life, who I’m sure would love it immensely.
February 14th, 2008 at 2:40 pm
i would give it to my beautiful daughter sierra
klp1965@verizon.net
February 14th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
I would give it to my oldest grandaughter who is a hard worker, has great values and is working her way thru college. She is a great roll model pms3237@aol.com
February 14th, 2008 at 3:20 pm
I would give the necklace to my beautiful grandaughter Savannah, my heart……
Grandma
February 14th, 2008 at 4:47 pm
I would give it to my oldest daughter.
February 14th, 2008 at 5:12 pm
My daughter. So she will always remember to follow her dreams!
February 14th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
I have three daughters, so they would have to share it . . . deanna@count.com
February 14th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
My daugher who will be 13 in a few months.
Angie K
tisaynababae@yahoo.com
February 14th, 2008 at 7:29 pm
My wife of 42 years that was with me through many tough times. I was unhealthy and needed 8 major operations and she was there for me always.
February 14th, 2008 at 7:30 pm
Who else than my love and the mother of my children
February 14th, 2008 at 8:23 pm
My sweet lovely wife is going to wear this lovely item.
February 14th, 2008 at 10:08 pm
I’d give this to my Aunt who’s following her life long dreams.
February 14th, 2008 at 10:29 pm
My closest friend’s daughter
February 14th, 2008 at 10:52 pm
I volunteer as a “Big Sister” to youths in our inner city and Angela is my “Little Sister” who is 12. She doesn’t have much so I would love to present this to her when she turns 13 in May.
February 15th, 2008 at 12:31 am
Love to give to twin grandughters sarah woods raymondw345@AOl.com
February 15th, 2008 at 12:56 am
I would give this to my cousin (age 14) as she just recently lost her mom in a car accident. She was in the car at the time and is still recovering. Thanks for such a sweet and pretty prize! ~
jmagloro[at]ywave.com
February 15th, 2008 at 1:26 am
I would give this to my mother whom is 77 years young because she is my jewel of life and she brings sunshine to my heart. maryj362001@yahoo.com
February 15th, 2008 at 2:47 am
I would give it to Zoë, my beautiful 15 year old granddaughter.
peggyprobus@netscape.net
February 15th, 2008 at 3:02 am
What a wonderful gift to give to a little princess.
February 15th, 2008 at 3:10 am
♥
I would love to give it to my 11½ yo daughter. Thanks!
February 15th, 2008 at 3:29 am
To my daughter…..!
February 15th, 2008 at 3:31 am
I would give this necklace to my daughter.
February 15th, 2008 at 4:15 am
I would give this to my daughter
for she has had to be strong through alot of medical problems
February 15th, 2008 at 5:14 am
This would be great for my daughter.
February 15th, 2008 at 5:41 am
My half sister Samantha who is a tween would really love this!