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> <channel><title>Comments on: How I Do It</title> <atom:link href="http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/</link> <description>Changing the world through intentional parenting, acts of kindness, and creative gift-giving.</description> <lastBuildDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:18:59 +0000</lastBuildDate> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2</generator> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <item><title>By: Dayna</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-77292</link> <dc:creator>Dayna</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 06:34:55 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-77292</guid> <description>Sorry- late comment to your post (catching up on my MM :). But I just had to tell you- I just finished putting a mountain of laundry not unsimilar to pic #1 (minus the gorgeous red pumps), my 20 month old&#039;s room often looks identical to picture #1 (minus the gorgeous babe), and I have those same bags of clothes (plus a bunch of boxes) filling my garage! Thanks for making the rest of us feel more human.I love the list... I especially count on #2- staying in and couldn&#039;t live without #5- supportive husband.Sorry I&#039;ve been such an absent commentor these days. Missed ya!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry- late comment to your post (catching up on my MM <img
src='http://metropolitanmama.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . But I just had to tell you- I just finished putting a mountain of laundry not unsimilar to pic #1 (minus the gorgeous red pumps), my 20 month old&#8217;s room often looks identical to picture #1 (minus the gorgeous babe), and I have those same bags of clothes (plus a bunch of boxes) filling my garage! Thanks for making the rest of us feel more human.</p><p>I love the list&#8230; I especially count on #2- staying in and couldn&#8217;t live without #5- supportive husband.</p><p>Sorry I&#8217;ve been such an absent commentor these days. Missed ya!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Jenny N.</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-77232</link> <dc:creator>Jenny N.</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 21:47:07 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-77232</guid> <description>This question is WAY better than its evil counterpart: &quot;What do you DO all day?&quot;Sit around eating bon-bons and watching soaps, right?  Uh-huh.I love my stay-at-home mommy job but get really annoyed at the people who think it&#039;s a whole lot of lazy hours.  I&#039;ve never worked so hard in my life!I like #2 on your list.  This is very much my personality as well.  I go out about once a week with the kiddos and that&#039;s it.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This question is WAY better than its evil counterpart: &#8220;What do you DO all day?&#8221;</p><p>Sit around eating bon-bons and watching soaps, right?  Uh-huh.</p><p>I love my stay-at-home mommy job but get really annoyed at the people who think it&#8217;s a whole lot of lazy hours.  I&#8217;ve never worked so hard in my life!</p><p>I like #2 on your list.  This is very much my personality as well.  I go out about once a week with the kiddos and that&#8217;s it.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Keyomi</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76991</link> <dc:creator>Keyomi</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 04:52:54 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76991</guid> <description>oh by the way..i loved your list. i am so happy for you that u have such a supportive husband. We dont watch much tv either unless its a movie..But i do love to get &quot;OUT&quot; of the house. i love shopping and need to do that often to feel refreshed. i am trying to curb that mentality.i love love love ur blog. u will keep seeing my name all the time :) thanks for sharing so much. i really do love to write too..just like you..only i dont do it as much...</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh by the way..i loved your list. i am so happy for you that u have such a supportive husband. We dont watch much tv either unless its a movie..</p><p>But i do love to get &#8220;OUT&#8221; of the house. i love shopping and need to do that often to feel refreshed. i am trying to curb that mentality.</p><p>i love love love ur blog. u will keep seeing my name all the time <img
src='http://metropolitanmama.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> thanks for sharing so much. i really do love to write too..just like you..only i dont do it as much&#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Keyomi</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76990</link> <dc:creator>Keyomi</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 04:49:26 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76990</guid> <description>What i want to know is how do you manage sleeping at 1am? how many hours do u sleep? do you get to steal a nap in the afternoon?i multi-task a lot. i am a cleaning and organizing freak..so love to make sure everything is in order. I make sure i dont keep all the &#039;heavy&#039; work on the same day. for example, the day i do laundry, i dont clean the bathroom. i keep a to-do list by my bed that i keep checking during the day. i love to mark things off of it so that itself motivates me to get things done.but i cannot do &#039;things&#039; past 9:30 pm(unless watching a movie) and i dont even have kids yet. hhow do u stay up so much?</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What i want to know is how do you manage sleeping at 1am? how many hours do u sleep? do you get to steal a nap in the afternoon?</p><p>i multi-task a lot. i am a cleaning and organizing freak..so love to make sure everything is in order. I make sure i dont keep all the &#8216;heavy&#8217; work on the same day. for example, the day i do laundry, i dont clean the bathroom. i keep a to-do list by my bed that i keep checking during the day. i love to mark things off of it so that itself motivates me to get things done.</p><p>but i cannot do &#8216;things&#8217; past 9:30 pm(unless watching a movie) and i dont even have kids yet. h</p><p>how do u stay up so much?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Erin --It's Your Movie--</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76845</link> <dc:creator>Erin --It's Your Movie--</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:23:54 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76845</guid> <description>Oh my goodness, of course I am reading.  I love that you put the heels there-- ha!  A whole heap of laundry doesn&#039;t mean a thing if there are cute heels beside it, right?  I stay up super late every night too.  I like the idea of dream doodles.  I should try something like that instead of just floating around all dream-cloud like.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my goodness, of course I am reading.  I love that you put the heels there&#8211; ha!  A whole heap of laundry doesn&#8217;t mean a thing if there are cute heels beside it, right?  I stay up super late every night too.  I like the idea of dream doodles.  I should try something like that instead of just floating around all dream-cloud like.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Dee</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76817</link> <dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:21:56 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76817</guid> <description>Hi Stephanie -- blog hopping today and found you!Thanks for sharing the pics of your living space -- many of us can relate when you have small children.Your blog is well written, informative and fun to read!  Your blog links are great too.Dee
http://newenglandnanny.blogspot.com/</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Stephanie &#8212; blog hopping today and found you!</p><p>Thanks for sharing the pics of your living space &#8212; many of us can relate when you have small children.</p><p>Your blog is well written, informative and fun to read!  Your blog links are great too.</p><p>Dee<br
/> <a
href="http://newenglandnanny.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://newenglandnanny.blogspot.com/</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Mary @ Parenthood</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76770</link> <dc:creator>Mary @ Parenthood</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 11:51:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76770</guid> <description>I&#039;ve always been a big list maker too, but ever since the time I left a list lying around that included brushing my teeth and bugging my brother I&#039;ve toned down the detail a bit...I try to keep things simple and organized.  It&#039;s easier for me to be productive if I can&#039;t see piles of things all over the place, so I try to make eliminating those piles easy.We also try to reduce the amount of &quot;stuff&quot; coming into our house in the first place, having places for things to go and ruthlessly getting rid of things we don&#039;t use (if I haven&#039;t used it in a year in the kitchen - out it goes!).The &quot;places for things to go&quot; is particularly important.  If it&#039;s my habit to dump things in a particular place (ahem), then either I need to change the habit or find a way to make the &quot;dumping&quot; look more attractive.  Usually changing the habit is pretty hard work!For instance, we keep a set of laundry baskets in our room and we toss clothes in (lights, darks, &quot;too clean to launder but already worn&quot;)And if all else fails, I just shove everything into a drawer or closet (out of sight, out of mind, right?).We do go out a lot, but mostly for walks or other free outings.  Elizabeth likes to do new things...  I try not to think of these as activities that are getting in the way of getting things done because really they are part of my job as being a mom.  Sometimes I can combine them with other things that need doing like depositing money or grocery shopping.I try to plan my week out in advance - it saves a lot of time in the grocery store and at meal prep time if I already know exactly what I&#039;m making!  And if I know which chores I&#039;m aiming to complete, it helps me keep perspective on what is doable in the week and what I have accomplished!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always been a big list maker too, but ever since the time I left a list lying around that included brushing my teeth and bugging my brother I&#8217;ve toned down the detail a bit&#8230;</p><p>I try to keep things simple and organized.  It&#8217;s easier for me to be productive if I can&#8217;t see piles of things all over the place, so I try to make eliminating those piles easy.</p><p>We also try to reduce the amount of &#8220;stuff&#8221; coming into our house in the first place, having places for things to go and ruthlessly getting rid of things we don&#8217;t use (if I haven&#8217;t used it in a year in the kitchen &#8211; out it goes!).</p><p>The &#8220;places for things to go&#8221; is particularly important.  If it&#8217;s my habit to dump things in a particular place (ahem), then either I need to change the habit or find a way to make the &#8220;dumping&#8221; look more attractive.  Usually changing the habit is pretty hard work!</p><p>For instance, we keep a set of laundry baskets in our room and we toss clothes in (lights, darks, &#8220;too clean to launder but already worn&#8221;)</p><p>And if all else fails, I just shove everything into a drawer or closet (out of sight, out of mind, right?).</p><p>We do go out a lot, but mostly for walks or other free outings.  Elizabeth likes to do new things&#8230;  I try not to think of these as activities that are getting in the way of getting things done because really they are part of my job as being a mom.  Sometimes I can combine them with other things that need doing like depositing money or grocery shopping.</p><p>I try to plan my week out in advance &#8211; it saves a lot of time in the grocery store and at meal prep time if I already know exactly what I&#8217;m making!  And if I know which chores I&#8217;m aiming to complete, it helps me keep perspective on what is doable in the week and what I have accomplished!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Angie</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76760</link> <dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:59:05 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76760</guid> <description>You are amazing!  We are homebodies here that is for sure. We like to go out and shop together but enjoy being home together most.  My hubby is very supportive too, I&#039;m so blessed.I definitely need to get more focused.  I would love to see a sample of your goal sheets and dream doodles (with fake info of course LOL) if you&#039;re able to share.As for TV, well that&#039;s a whole other story.  I&#039;m totally addicted to Reality TV and it&#039;s our time to just wind down but I do want to cut out some of the shows that I watch come Fall.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are amazing!  We are homebodies here that is for sure. We like to go out and shop together but enjoy being home together most.  My hubby is very supportive too, I&#8217;m so blessed.</p><p>I definitely need to get more focused.  I would love to see a sample of your goal sheets and dream doodles (with fake info of course LOL) if you&#8217;re able to share.</p><p>As for TV, well that&#8217;s a whole other story.  I&#8217;m totally addicted to Reality TV and it&#8217;s our time to just wind down but I do want to cut out some of the shows that I watch come Fall.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Erin S.</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76728</link> <dc:creator>Erin S.</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 16:03:59 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76728</guid> <description>so nice to see how you guys work to compliment each other. what a beautiful relationship.
i do everything except the stay in part...i love getting out to local conservation areas or playgroups or family activities. i&#039;m a traveller. i like trying to teach my kids about different things by also experiencing it and immersing ourselves in it.
:) thanks for sharing.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so nice to see how you guys work to compliment each other. what a beautiful relationship.<br
/> i do everything except the stay in part&#8230;i love getting out to local conservation areas or playgroups or family activities. i&#8217;m a traveller. i like trying to teach my kids about different things by also experiencing it and immersing ourselves in it.<br
/> <img
src='http://metropolitanmama.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> thanks for sharing.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Fit Mommy</title><link>http://metropolitanmama.net/2009/07/how-i-do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76724</link> <dc:creator>Fit Mommy</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 14:58:36 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://metropolitanmama.net/?p=6968#comment-76724</guid> <description>Glad to see more of the real MM!In fact, I totally agree with the TV thing- mostly because it&#039;s just violent and nasty.  HOWEVER, it will be on for the next 3 weeks for the Tour De France!!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad to see more of the real MM!</p><p>In fact, I totally agree with the TV thing- mostly because it&#8217;s just violent and nasty.  HOWEVER, it will be on for the next 3 weeks for the Tour De France!!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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