I’d make you a parfait if I could

This past year, our little family of four has volunteered with over 40 non-profit organizations in over 20 states. Our very first project was with The Giving Tree in our hometown of Tucson, AZ.

We served a special dessert to the homeless at a weekly gathering called Project F.E.E.D. – yogurt parfaits! We packed 2 plastic tubs of plain mountain high yogurt, a box of granola, a bowl of fresh fruit [diced apples, oranges, bananas, and raspberries], clear plastic party glasses, and plastic spoons. Then, we layered the ingredients, added a dollop of whipped cream, and handed them out.

Re-watching that video takes me back to all of the emotions before we left. A year later, I still believe in volunteerism. I believe that individuals can make a difference. Most importantly, I believe that giving is most powerful when it happens in the context of relationships, not through random acts of kindness.

Today, I celebrate the uncelebrated. The weary mother. The caregiver to the elderly relative. The friend who remembers who you are when you’ve forgotten yourself. The persevering teacher who cares more than 40 hours per week. I salute you – In fact, I’d make you a parfait if I could.

I am participating in a compensated program by Plastics Make it Possible® in partnership with the American Chemistry Council and Ogilvy PR. 

how to drive long distances with preschoolers

playing in f250 how to drive long distances with preschoolersWhen we first decided to travel the country in an RV, I worried about the amount of time we would need to spend in the car. Our then one-and-a-half-year-old wasn’t a huge fan of her carseat and we hadn’t done many long road trips.

The girls surprised us by being Super Travelers. For the most part, they rarely complained or cried…and any meltdowns usually occurred in the last 30-60 minutes of a trip.

Here are a few of our techniques for keeping peace on-the-road:

1. We rarely drove more than 5 hours in any given day. Our typical length was about 3-4 hours. On our drive west, we did some longer stretches (up to 8 hours) – and that was less than ideal. I don’t recommend it.

2. We stayed at most campgrounds between 1-2 weeks. This helped because we were able to get out, stretch, enjoy an area, and not be constantly driving.

3. We packed snacks. I had utopian visions of packing fresh fruits and veggies in a portable igloo for travel days. In reality, we traveled so often that we couldn’t be that well-prepared. We usually opted for fruit leathers (individually wrapped in plastic packaging), beef jerky (World Kitchens is one of our favorite brands), apples and oranges, CLIF bars, and licorice.

4. We watched movies. At first, we resisted purchasing portable DVD players. As time wore on, however, we changed our thinking. We don’t have a TV inside our RV so our girls look forward to their screen time on-the-road. Made with lightweight plastic components, the players are strapped on the back of the headrests for easy visibility.

5. We listened to Adventures in Odyssey – an excellently produced audio show for kids that I listened to throughout my childhood! Our 4-year-old would often request to “listen to the Bible.”

What is the longest distance you’ve ever driven with your kids? What do you do to maintain sanity/peace in the car?

I am participating in a compensated program by Plastics Make it Possible® in partnership with the American Chemistry Council and Ogilvy PR. 

Road Trip Sweepstakes – $250 prize package

road Road Trip Sweepstakes   $250 prize packageWhile you wait for me to pass into the Land of the Living (aka the Second Trimester), perhaps you’d enjoy entering the Road Trip Sweepstakes?

Leave a comment on the Plastics Make It Possible website for a chance to win a prize package valued at $250.

The prize package includes:

  • a shatter resistant plastic picnic set backpack
  • go-anywhere plastic polyester chairs
  • plastic vacuum space-saver bags
  • large collapsible plastic cooler
  • $50 gas card
I am participating in a compensated program by Plastics Make it Possible® in partnership with the American Chemistry Council and Ogilvy PR. 
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What event are you planning?

eventbrite logo What event are you planning?I used to host Clothes Swaps at my house once a quarter. It was a fun way for my friends and I to clear clutter from our closets, while also picking up “new” clothes.

Back in my pre-baby career days, I also planned (or was a pivotal part of planning) many events…from small faculty orientations at a university to large career/college fairs when I worked as a high school guidance counselor.

Like it or not, most moms end up planning quite a few events as their children grow-up – birthday parties, graduation celebrations, bridal showers, bake sales, and dinner soirees.

I recently had an opportunity to interview Julia Hartz, a mom of 1 (soon-to-be 2!) and the cofounder of Eventbrite, a site that “gives you all the online tools you need to bring people together for an event and sell tickets.”

julia hartz What event are you planning?

Julia Hartz, cofounder of Eventbrite

ME: Tell me more about the history of Eventbrite.

JULIA: The company was founded in January 2006 to democratize ticketing so that anyone would be able to sell tickets online.

ME: How do you envision moms using the site?

JULIA: Parents use the site along a wide spectrum. We’ve had people plan fall fundraisers for schools, yoga classes, music concerts, PTA meetings, even baby showers. The service allows you to track data about who is coming, how much money you are raising – plus, it assists with invitations, marketing, and follow-up.

ME: What is the cost to use Eventbrite?

JULIA: If your event is free, the service is completely free. If you’re selling tickets, Eventbrite takes 2.5% + 99cents per ticket. There is also a break for non-profits.

What events do you regularly plan/host at your house? Christmas cookie exchange? Easter lunch? Mother/Daughter Book Club? 

* Eventbrite is compensating me for this post.