my blog is a business (and I’m proud of that)

dusty rose coat smiling my blog is a business (and Im proud of that)Fact: I have a small business. I pour hours into it – waking up early, staying up late. I spend money on marketing and development. I strategize. I seek mentors. I have business lunches and virtual conference calls. I pay taxes.

That business? You’re looking at it. Metropolitan Mama.

Every once in awhile, I get the message from other bloggers that if you’re trying to make money or review products or sell advertising or any combination of those activities, then you’re a sell-out. I disagree adamantly.

Business is not a bad word. On the contrary, businesses can be run with integrity. Businesses can do good in the world. Businesses can turn out excellent products. Businesses can be the foundation for strong relationships. And – yes – businesses can help put food on the table.

Just because I am seeking a profit as a blogger does not mean that I sell out my voice or compromise my content. In fact, I protect both things unwaveringly (my husband would say I protect them a little too much sometimes). Example: a notable popsicle brand recently invited me to be a part of a paid campaign. I declined because they have “high fructose corn syrup” in them (an ingredient my family tries to stay away from).

That being said, I eagerly enter into partnerships with brands that coincide with my family’s lifestyle and philosophies. I sell advertising spots and have sponsorship campaign packages (feel free to contact me if you’re interested). I enjoy public speaking, being an ambassador for products I believe in, and attending conferences. I have tens of thousands of readers from all over the United States, Canada, and beyond.

I certainly respect that blogs exist for many different reasons. Some are journals; some are photo-logs. Some are meant for family & friends. Some have tens of readers; some have thousands. Some bloggers don’t want to maintain a business; some do. And all those reasons for blogging are good.

My particular blog exists as a business. I’m in the business of encouraging, inspiring, and challenging mothers. I’m in the business of writing, publishing, and creating relationships. I’m in the business of changing the world in the best way that I know how.

I am *also* bringing in an income for my family…and I’m cool with that. I hope you are too.

Do you blog? If so, do you consider it to be a business or would you like it to be?

If you are an entrepreneur of any kind, what are your favorite books, websites, and/or conferences?

What to Pack: TravelKiddy

travelkiddy bag What to Pack: TravelKiddyLong trips can be hard for little ones.

There is so much waiting (for the plane to take-off/land, for the stoplight to turn to green, for the car to get filled up with gas, etc.)…and so much sitting still.

If you are under three feet tall, waiting and sitting still are two things that are not on your list of favorite things to do.

As a parent, I think it is wise to extend a lot of grace to small children when traveling…and to be very, VERY prepared with food, activities, and break stops.

One idea is to purchase a TravelKiddy for your trip. Invented by a mom of four, the activity kits are packed with fun toys, crafts, and games to keep kids entertained.

TKB3 6 2 214x300 What to Pack: TravelKiddyWe took the BASIC TravelKiddy for ages 3-6 on a recent road trip and our 3-year-old kept asking for the “green bag.” You can refer to the website for the kit’s entire contents, but her favorite things inside included the stickers, the measuring tape, the toy animals, and the hand sanitizer wipes (go figure…who knew germ-killing could be so much fun?).

I think the kits would be best-suited for air travel since some of the contents work better with a tray or flat surface, but it was great in the car too.

Available in four different age categories (toddler, ages 3-6, ages 6-9, and ages 8-adult), the kits retail for between $21.95-$44.95.

Screen shot 2010 01 24 at 7.30.49 PM 150x142 What to Pack: TravelKiddyWIN IT! One winner will receive a TravelKiddy in his/her choice of age category. To enter, leave any topic-related comment on this post prior to Monday, February 1st at 11:59 p.m. (Don’t forget to follow the rules…all generic comments like “Enter me!,” “Love it,” and “Cool stuff!” will be disqualified.).

* I received a product sample for review purposes.

*UPDATE* The winner is #30 liz m. Congratulations!

Keeping Small Children Busy + Happy on Airplanes

Our 3-year-old loves going places. To the park. The post office. The grocery store. Anywhere.

When we announced that we were going to Disneyland, she talked about it for weeks. Truth be told, she is STILL talking about. In fact, I am still talking about it too. I’m ready to go back. I love that place.

preschooler on airplane Keeping Small Children Busy + Happy on AirplanesShe also still talks about the plane. Lately, she’s been wanting to pretend that we’re on a plane several times a week. She always want to cook me food on the plane – steak and potatoes, vegetable lasagna and cheesecake and peach tea. If only REAL food service on planes was that good.

Anyway, from my limited experience, I think 3 is a very good age for jet setting. She can sit still for a longer period of time, she can be distracted, and she can have full conversations. She was the picture of good behavior during both of our flights.

Here are four things that helped:

1. Lollipop, Lollipop. If you are traveling with a preschooler, never underestimate the power of a lollipop. Lollipops are wonderful for two reasons: (1) they take a long time to lick and will buy you a good chunk of time, and (2) they help little ones to “pop” their ears during take-off and landing.

2. Drink Service. Our 3-year-old was totally excited by the prospect of getting a special drink to put on her tray. We normally never let her drink soda (In fact, she only had her first soda this past summer – a neighbor’s home brew of root beer), but we made an exception for the trip. She drank Sprite happily out of a straw and felt quite proud of herself.

3. Snacks. DO bring a variety of snacks – dried apricots, trail mix, crackers, fruit snacks, etc. Chances are the airline won’t serve anything (which stinks, by the way…I remember the good ‘ol days when you got a sandwich and chips and a cookie) so be sure to have your own on-hand for any “I’m hungry” moments.

airport contents 300x210 Keeping Small Children Busy + Happy on Airplanes4. My Airport Busy Kit. The My Airport Busy Kit is a a genius little kit designed by two California moms. The kit is priced at $15.99 and includes markers, crayons, stickers, a measuring tape, a laceboard, scissors, bendable craft sticks, and much more…all packaged in a see-through mini suitcase with two smiley faces on the front. When I used the word “genius” above, I meant it. This kit is packed with just the right variety of products to keep a preschooler busy for a long time. In fact, we didn’t even make it through all of the contents over the course of our two flights. Surprisingly, she probably loved the kid-shaped measuring tape best (it’s the blue elephant in the picture, see above). She “measured” the seat and her arms and her baby sister and all kinds of things.

At $15.99, I actually think the kit is priced very fairly. On a previous trip, I went to Michael’s and bought stickers, a sketch pad, and other odds-and-ends…and I spent at least that much. And the items weren’t as plane-friendly or as packable.

Needless to say, I think these kits are great for plane rides, road trips, waiting rooms, and any time when sitting “still” is required by a small child. I already have the kit tucked away for our next journey.

YOUR TURN: How do YOU keep your small children occupied on airplanes and on long road trips?

airport 150x110 Keeping Small Children Busy + Happy on AirplanesWIN IT! One winner will receive a My Airport Busy Kit ($15.99) by My Busy Kit. To enter, leave any topic-related comment on this post prior to Saturday, December 12th at 11:59 p.m. (Don’t forget to follow the rules…all generic comments like “Enter me!,” “Love it,” and “Cool stuff!” will be disqualified.).

* I received a product sample for review purposes.

*UPDATE* The winner is #6 MaryBeth @ FourSillySisters. Congratulations!

help for teething babies

teething bling bronze smart mom jewelry help for teething babiesAt 6 months old, my baby is at that overwhelming stage when babies put everything in their mouths.

And I do mean everything.

She is super curious about the world around her: reaching and rolling and moving across rooms like nobody’s business. And if she finds anything, she’ll immediately put it in her mouth.

When we venture out-and-about, I try to remember to bring a teether or toy, but…sometimes, I forget.

Now, however, I wear my bronze teething bling pendant {pictured, $21.20} by Smart Mom Jewelry. It’s a necklace that also functions as a teether…brilliant! The pendant material is non-toxic, latex-free, and food-safe (oh, and it’s dishwasher-friendly too!). I really am lovin’ the rich bronze color I selected because it’s equally perfect paired with dressier clothes or every-day clothes.

Two mamas – Kendra & Amy – started Smart Mom Jewelry in 2002. And I have to say…they really are Smart Moms! Even my husband was impressed by the concept (and he’s a pretty tough critic).

YOUR TURN: How do you help your teething baby? What products do you recommend?

smartmom mp logo 150x50 help for teething babiesWIN IT! One winner will receive a teething bling pendant of her choice by Smart Mom Jewelry. To enter, leave any topic-related comment on this post prior to Monday, September 21st at 11:59 p.m. (Don’t forget to follow the rules…all generic comments like “Enter me!,” “Love it,” and “Cool stuff!” will be disqualified.).

*UPDATE* The winner is #1 Deborah. Congratulations!

Win a Custom Birthday Shirt

Celebrate your little one’s birthday with a fun, whimsical, and one-of-a-kind shirt from Olive & Ollie:

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Oh. Oh. Oh. Aren’t they oh-so-cute?

The birthday shirts are handmade by a mom of two from Cincinnati, Ohio and retail for between $20-$26.

If you choose to make a purchase, you will:

  1. get an adorable shirt that is “photo shoot ready.”
  2. be supporting a talented mom who makes her goods after her kids are tucked in for the night.

Sounds like a win-win situation. Don’t you think?

P.S. Olive & Ollie also sells custom birthday sets and the sweetest little peasant dresses.

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*UPDATE* The winner is #83 ReggieMann. Congratulations!

How to Become A Chocolatier

I never forget to R.S.V.P. for “sales parties.”

The reason I don’t forget is because I automatically say “no.”

No offense to Mary Kay, Arbonne, Premier Jewelry, and Gold Canyon – I just don’t like to go to a party where I know with 100% certainty that I’m not going to buy anything. Yes, I realize buying something isn’t obligatory, but it always feels a bit awkward to walk away from those parties empty-handed. Besides, I don’t like going to an informal “get-together” with friends, only to realize that I have to listen to a sales pitch about why this foundation is revolutionary for my skin or these candles will last for eight hours.

Note to friends:

  • I rarely wear make-up and, when I do, I buy my “favorite” drug store brands – you know, like Revlon lipsticks and Maybelline mascara. The $7 variety.
  • I rarely wear jewelry and the pieces that I do have are handmade, personalized, and/or simply silver. My ears aren’t pierced and I don’t wear rings (other than my wedding ring). Bracelets are beautiful (but a nuisance when you have a toddler). So I usually stick to simple necklaces with special meanings.
  • I don’t buy candles. Especially ones that retail for over $10. Even if they smell wonderful and will burn until pigs fly.

I love YOU, but not the products. capiche?

Oh, and I totally don’t mind being invited (thank you for thinking of me). Just know that I’ll say “no” about…oh…98% of the time.

I might change my mind, however, if you were selling something else, like homemade soap or locally grown produce or…chocolate (which brings me to the reason for this post).

If you’re the kind of person who would enjoy working in a direct sales capacity, here’s an idea:

dove logo 150x150 How to Become A ChocolatierDOVE Chocolate Discoveries offers you a way to “Eat Chocolate. Make friends. Make $$$.” Essentially, you host a DOVE Chocolate Discoveries™ Tasting party and invite your friends to try…chocolate. Serve chocolate martinis, 5-minute chocolate mousse, chocolate-covered graham crackers, truffle fudge brownies, or fondue.

DOVE Chocolate Discoveries is the first direct-selling company just for chocolate (and it’s a new “start-up” company, which is why you may not have heard of it until now). The base commission is 25%, but there is potential for earning up to 40% with additional bonus opportunities as well.

If you are interested in becoming a Chocolatier, you may want to watch the “Chocolate Advantage” video for more information. From there, you can get up and running by purchasing a $149 Business Kit. The kit gives you everything you need to hold your first four to six Tasting Parties.

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As with any direct selling company, the amount of money you make (or if you make any money at all…) depends on how often you want to host parties (and how much people buy, of course). I, myself, am not really a direct-selling kind of gal, but this opportunity sounds like it has potential for fun for the right kind of person.

Note: If you invite me to a chocolate tasting party, I probably won’t R.S.V.P. quite as fast as I would for other direct selling parties…because I’ll be checking my calendar. Will you do me a favor though? Hold the sales pitch. Chocolate pretty much speaks for itself.

I’m pleased to offer one of you an opportunity to become a Chocolatier!

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WIN IT! One winner will receive a $149 DOVE Chocolate Discoveries Business Kit (pictured above, valued at $300). To enter, leave a comment stating why you would like to be a Chocolatier and/or why you would make a good Chocolatier on this post prior to Monday, June 22 at midnight (Don’t forget to follow the rules…all generic comments like “Enter me!,” “Love it,” and “Cool stuff!” will be disqualified.).

NOTE: Unlike most of my contests here at Metropolitan Mama, the winner of the DOVE Chocolate Discoveries Business Kit will not be chosen randomly. I will carefully select a winner based on the quality and creativity of your entry. My goal will be to select a commenter who clearly demonstrates her potential to be a Chocolatier. Convince me!

*UPDATE* THANK YOU to everyone who entered to become a Chocolatier! There were so many fantastic entries – it was hard to choose! But the winner is…#116 Marina. Marina, you gave a compelling case about why you would make an outstanding Chocolatier and I wish you much success with your new business endeavor! Best wishes!